Learn How These Simple  Communication Ideas Totally Saved Our Relationship....

Discover The Tips, Shortcuts & Secrets That Will Work Like Magic To Get Your Spouse, Partner or Lover to Listen to You, Open Up To You and Willingly Talk To You About Anything –Without Any Pushing or Nagging ...

Here's how...

Dear Friend,

     We're Susie and Otto Collins and if you're like most people today, you're frustrated about your communication (or lack of) with your spouse, partner or lover.

     You want your communication to be easier, more open and you want to feel that close, loving connection with your partner but you don't.

     We want to help you with that and in order to do that, we'd first like to ask you a few questions...

Would you love it if your partner would just open up and share their feelings with you?
Have you ever wanted more honesty, transparency and intimacy?
Have you ever wanted to be able to tell your partner anything but couldn't because you weren't sure how they would respond or react?
Have you ever wanted to know how to express your needs in a way that he or she understood and responded to in a positive way?
Have you ever wished they wouldn't run away, turn their backs on you, freeze you out and ignore you, your feelings or your thoughts and words?
Have you ever wanted to be able to get your partner to be able to listen-truly listen to you-so you didn't feel so alone and unimportant?
Have you ever wanted more intimacy, connection and passion?
Have you ever wished that they didn't have to be "right" all the time?
Have you ever wanted him or her to just open their heart to you and just tell you how they felt about something you were talking about--instead of you feeling like you have to use a crow bar to get them to open up?
Have you ever wished communication was just plain "easier?"

     If you said YES to any of these questions, then you are not alone...

     We used to have these kinds of communication challenges too until we discovered these simple communication secrets.

How A Middle of the Night Conversation Saved Our Relationship and Gave Us The Golden Key To Communicating, Connecting & Making Our Love Last...

     We didn't realize how important it was at the time.

     But there was a simple 2-minute middle-of-the-night conversation we had in the early days of our relationship, that as we look back on it, probably saved our relationship.

     To be sure, if we hadn't had that conversation our relationship wouldn't be anywhere near as good as it is...

... and because this was long before we started teaching people about relationships, it's almost certain that if we hadn't had this short conversation, we wouldn't be spending our time spreading a message of love, passion, connection, how to keep the spark alive and how to create true, lasting love like we do now.

     You've probably had one of those nights where you've woken up and couldn't back to sleep. You toss and turn, as a million thoughts run through your head.

     We had one of those nights early in our relationship and as we lay there unable to sleep, we realized what was at the bottom of our uneasiness.

     It's was a fear of whether we could actually keep the spark alive in our relationship over the long haul--or not.

     If we recall how the conversation went, it was something like this...

     Susie quietly asked Otto..."You awake?"

     Otto said..."I am now. Why can't you sleep?"

     She said: "I'm worried that this is so good between us and I'm afraid that it won't last."

     Otto just listened as Susie continued to talk...

     She said, "I've never felt anything like this. How can we make sure that we can keep this love going strong forever?"

     Otto pulled her closer, held her tight for a moment and said, "Maybe since our first marriages didn't last, we should do things differently this time."

     Sleep overtook us again but the conversation wasn't lost.

     The next day, we had something akin to an awakening that changed our relationship and lives--and has since gone on to be the catalyst for us helping change the relationships of hundreds of thousands of men and women for the better.

     We realized that even though we had the proverbial "soul mate experience" and felt like we had finally found our true soul mates in each other, it wasn't enough to keep the spark alive forever.

     We realized that being "in love" was not going to be enough.

     Getting married and committing to each other would not be the thing that would keep our love and the spark alive over the long run.

      We realized that day that we're born into this world and go about our lives and nobody teaches us how to communicate and connect with each other.

     Nobody teaches us how to keep the spark alive.

     Nobody teaches us how to grow through the different stages, phases and changes in our lives together and still keep love strong.

     That's when we realized that if we wanted to keep this incredible relationship alive forever like we wanted, one thing was for sure...

     We had to do things differently in THIS relationship than we'd done in the past.

     We realized that it didn't matter whether we loved each other or not, whether we were soul mates or not and whether we had committed to each other or not--if we didn't learn do things "differently" than we did in our previous marriages, we could very well end up in divorce court just like before.

     So, what we did in that moment was make a commitment to ourselves and each other to learn the secrets to communicating and connecting with each other in ways that our hearts always stayed open, the passion could stay alive and our love could stay strong--for as long as we wanted.

     That was nearly 18 years ago now and we're happy to report that our love and the flame still burns bright in our hearts for each other every day.

     We love being together, truly enjoy spending time with each other and still make our love the most important thing in our lives.

     We think this desire to keep the spark alive, along with our commitment to learn the secrets of communicating and connecting, have made ALL the difference for us.

     That's why we spend our time and our lives teaching others how to have better relationships--because we know how good love can be and we want you to have this too.

     If there's any part of you that wishes, hopes and dreams of being able to get your partner to open his or heart to you and willingly talk to you, listen to you, be there for you, and not hold back, we want you to know that there is hope.

     You don't have to live like separated strangers who used to know each other. You may not have been able to make the kind of shifts in your communication with each other that you've wanted so far but we can assure you that there are some very simple things you can start doing right away that can change everything for the better.


"2 Things We Did That Makes Communication and Connection Dramatically Better Almost Instantly..."

      There are a lot of things we've done over the years that have made a big difference in the quality of our communication and our connection.

     We've also made a lot of mistakes.

     Because we really want to help you communicate and connect with your partner at a much deeper level, we thought it might be valuable if each one of us (Susie and Otto) shared something specific we've done to make our communication and connection stronger and our love deeper and more alive.

     This way, you'll have a couple of new things you can try out in your own relationship and life.

Here's what Susie says (in her own words) were big "ah-ha's" for her--some things she used to do that cut off intimacy and connection and what she does now that creates much more love and connection.


Susie: "I remember the moment as if it were yesterday. Not too many months after Otto and I got together, I was washing dishes and cleaning up the sink, with my back to him as he talked to me.

     "This was familiar to me because this is the way my communication often was with my ex-husband while we were married. He talked to my back, as I walked through the house picking up things and putting them away, and with me answering him--but not often looking into his eyes as I talked. 

    "I had fallen into an old habit that decreased intimacy but Otto called me on it.

    "He wanted all of me engaged in a conversation and not just a part of me.

     "At that moment, I realized that I had been cutting off the connection and intimacy that I deeply wanted without even realizing it.

     "From that moment on, I became more aware of where my attention was, especially in my conversations with my beloved. This attention has helped me to stay focused on what's really important in my life and create the love I want."


Here, in Otto's own words, is something he used to do and what he's done differently that's made a big difference in our relationship and what you can learn from this...


 Otto: "In my previous marriage and in the early days of my relationship with Susie, I sort of lived from this 'Yes dear whatever you want dear' place where (in my own mind at least), I'd say and do things that I thought my partner wanted to hear, just so I could keep the peace and have my desire for love and connection met.

     "Big problem. This 'peace' would usually only last for a while and then I'd get really angry and explode telling her how much I resented giving over my power to her and letting her get her way all the time.

     "Again, this wasn't rational. One day I realized that it was only a pattern I was running in the way I communicated and tried to give and get love and when that happened, everything changed.

     "Along with Susie's help, I figured out that if there was something I wanted that I could simply tell Susie about it (without giving over my power or acting like some sort of victim) and say something to her like...'Because this is something really important to me or because this is something I'd really like, can we find a way to talk about this?'

     "When I was able to start talking to Susie in this way, everything changed for the better."


     There have been many times like these where we've realized a communication pattern that one or both of us were running that was taking us away from the love and relationship we wanted instead of feeling pulled closer and closer together.

     We're really grateful that we each continue to find new ways to connect deeper with each other.

     We're also glad that we can share our insights that have taken us over 16 years to learn with you in our new "500 Communication Tips & Secrets."

What is "500 Communication Tips & Secrets"
and What's In It?

     "500 Communication Tips & Secrets" is a brand new program by us (Susie and Otto Collins) that is available for immediate download and offers over 500 communication tips, ideas and secrets for how to communicate better, more intelligently and from your heart with yourself first and then with your spouse, partner, or lover, as well as the other people in your life.

     These tips are the best of the best communication ideas we’ve discovered over our intense study of relationships and communication over the last 16 years.

     The 500 tips are distributed over 40 categories that are the major challenges that people face in their lives around communication.

     There is no right or wrong way to go through this material but we do have two suggestions you could choose from:

1. Read and practice a tip (or several tips) of the day, focusing on how that tip applies to you.

2. Totally immerse yourself in the book, cover to cover, making note of the tips that you particularly want to practice and integrate into your life.

     The key is to practice these tips because nothing will change unless you put these ideas into action in your life.

     You can go through the material with a partner or by yourself. If you’re with a partner and you have a particular problem area that you struggle with, choose to start there and go through that section together. If your partner isn't open to reading this book with you, know that you can still make powerful changes that improve your relationship communication and life.

     Whether you are working through this material by yourself or with a partner, be sure that you notice when your communication is easier and more relaxed. It’s tempting to be discouraged when you or your partner lapse into old habits that push the two of you away from each other but the magic of creating new habits is in noticing even very small changes that create more love—and then doing that more.

     Our "500 Communication Tips and Secrets" contains the most communication tips you'll find anywhere ALL in one place and every tip has the power to change your communication and relationship forever, if you’re open to the lesson being offered.

     This book and the tips and secrets inside will blow your mind with the simplicity, elegance and is designed to give you true breakthroughs in your communication and your relationship.

     These communication tips and secrets we're offering here really are the best of the best communication ideas we’ve discovered over our intense study of relationships and communication over the last 16 years.


Here are just a few of the things you'll learn
from "500 Communication Tips & Secrets"...


The communication mindset you must adopt if want more openness, love and understanding between you and your partner

How you can stay connected or intimate with your partner even during arguments or misunderstandings

How to tell the truth in a way that is kind and helpful instead of upsetting or destructive--even when it's difficult

How to deal with a partner who is controlling and sees no reason to change

How to create an “internal mantra” that helps create more of what you want in your relationships and lives

The communication advice that all should take but very seldom do

How to start a conversation in a way that shows your partner you're open to listening and talking about solutions to challenges rather than blaming and criticizing--doing this will feel so much better to both you and your partner

The best words to say and use when you want or need to set boundaries or make requests

One word you shouldn't say to your partner (or anyone else) when you are making a request of them and the one word you should say instead

Where ALL of your communication problems come from

The one thing you should always ask someone before you offer any kind of advice--this makes sure you are honoring them and you're also not doing something they don't want

The most important thing you should eliminate from your relationship today if you want more love, romance and spark between you and your partner

One of the best habits you could ever take on if you truly want to be understood and connect with others

The one question to ask yourself that forces you to be more positive and break out of negative spirals more quickly

How to get your partner to open up to you and talk to you about anything

How you can feel more understood and appreciated (almost overnight)

How to have more trust and connection between the two of you

The one “Game” you should NEVER play if you want a close connected relationship

The one thing NEVER to talk about when your partner's not around--guaranteed to make your partner feel unimportant and dishonored

How to deal with broken agreements in ways that keep your bond and connection

5 keys to communicating and talking about "hot-button" topics like sex, money and kids

Communication tips for dealing with money differences

The best communication strategies for opening a closed down partner

17 communication tips for dealing conflict and defensiveness

How to communicate in ways that guarantee your partner or spouse understands you

The magic key to dealing with differences between yourself and your partner

18 tips for communicating when you're feeling criticized and disrespected

How to create healthy boundaries by using only your words

How to know when to issue an ultimatum and when to back off...

The right way and the wrong way to be honest--one builds connection and trust, the other destroys it

How to use your differences to bring you together instead of tear you apart

How to make difficult conversations easier

And Much More...

How To Tell If Our New
"500 Communication Tips & Secrets" is For You...

     What we're offering here is a breakthrough program on how to communicate, connect and create a lifetime of love.

     These communication tips, ideas, insights and strategies are absolutely cutting edge. NO ONE else is teaching the kinds of proven, practical, real world, tried and tested communication ideas that you'll find here.

     If you want to learn the secrets to communicating and getting a spouse, partner or lover to open to you, communicate with ease and love and free of drama and conflict--then you'll love our "500 Communication Tips & Secrets."

     If you're someone who loves "shortcuts" and would love to have some that could instantly improve your communication, this program is for you.

     If you're someone who wants to avoid pain and have more love and connection, the "500 Communication Tips & Secrets" are for you. 

     If you like things that are proven to work in the real world, these tips and secrets are for you.

     If you'd like an affordable solution to your communication challenges instead of something long, drawn out and painful, this is your answer.

     If you've lost that feeling of love and connection, there's no better resource available anywhere for learning some quick, actionable ideas for connecting deeper right away.

     If you've tried everything you know to do to get your partner to open up to you, then you'll find these "500 Communication Tips & Secrets" to be an amazing resource.

     If things in your relationship have gotten a little boring, you'll find plenty of communication ideas here to bring back that feeling of newness and aliveness that we all want in our relationships.

     If you're not having as much fun together as you used to, these communication tips and secrets could be the answer for you.

     If you're willing to spend as little as 1 minute a day on learning some new communication skills and ideas, then these ideas could be a God-send for you and change your relationship and life starting right now. 

     If you are open to some new ideas and trying a few new things that you may not have tried before, then this program is certainly for you.

     On the other hand, if you don't have the connection that you truly want, you've decided to give up on making things better and do nothing differently--then you should probably pass on this program and continue doing what you've been doing.


What Makes Our "500 Communication Tips & Secrets"
Different From Anything Else? 

     Most learning or improvement programs are enormous and would take you forever to go through.

     Not this one.

     If you're someone who's busy (and who isn't these days), you'll love the fact that the tips and secrets in this program are written in bite-sized pieces that are quick to go through and easy to understand.

     What makes our "500 Communication Tips & Secrets" different from any other communication program available is not just how practical and immediately useable this information is and how much easier communicating and connecting will be for you after you've gone through all our tips...

     But to the best of our knowledge, there are more communication tips here all in one place than you'll find anywhere else.

     We're offering
over 500 communication tips, ideas and secrets for how to communicate better, more intelligently and from your heart with yourself first and with others as well. The tips are short and to the point and are followed by a quick explanation of why they make communication better or what situations they can really help you with.

     These tips are the best of the best communication ideas we’ve discovered over our intense study of relationships and communication over the last 16 years.

     The 500 tips we share with you are distributed over 40 categories that are major challenges that people face in their relationships in the area of communication.

     What you're going to love most about these communication tips and secrets is the fact that there's no fluff and no filler here. This is all meat.

     Because this is a downloadable program, you can download these 500 communication tips instantly and as you begin using these ideas (no matter how bad your relationship is), you'll start seeing dramatic changes for the better right away.

     What we can tell you about the "500 Communication Tips & Secrets" is that they have been proven to work, not only in our relationship, but in the lives of our coaching clients as well.

     And finally...

     One of the biggest things that makes this program so different is how we cover all different aspects of relationships and offer tips for you, that (quite frankly), you don't have to figure out on your own.

Let's Wrap This Up

     Nothing is more critical to the success and happiness of a relationship than communication.

     The simple fact is...

     If you can't figure out how to communicate and connect with your partner, spouse or lover, then one of two things is going to happen...

     You will either force yourself to stay in a relationship with no connection, love, passion or intimacy and just check out emotionally and deaden yourself inside so you don't feel the pain of feeling alone and disconnected from the one you love.


     One day you'll wake up and decide that you aren't willing to live without the love and connection you truly want and either find yourself in an affair with someone else or that becomes the day you start calling divorce attorneys.

     If you want to learn the secrets to truly communicating and connecting with your spouse, partner or lover. then you'll never find a quicker and easier way to do it than going through these "500 Communication Tips & Secrets." 

     Life is too short not to have the love and connection you really want. You deserve to feel loved, appreciated and connected at the heart, mind and soul level with your beloved.

     You don't have to become a relationship expert like us to totally transform your relationship and life. But if you're like most people in relationship today, you do need some new communication skills.

     For many people, just a handful of new insights from our "500 Communication Tips & Secrets" will be everything you need to do a complete communication makeover and get you and your partner back to a place of feeling love and connection.

     These "500 Communication Tips & Secrets" will show you how to quickly and easily communicate and connect with your spouse, partner or lover in new ways that builds love, trust, closeness, connection, spark and intimacy that will last a lifetime.


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Much Love to you,

Susie and Otto Collins 

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Susie & Otto's Success Stories and
Rave Reviews

"A fabulous, easy read..."

"'500 Communication Tips & Secrets' was a fabulous, easy read. The ideas presented here are useful, practical and common sense for the most part. They are presented in a logical sequence under each topic heading. Many of the tips and secrets are ones which could be applied to any relationship you were interested in keeping, not only intimate ones.

"If you are looking at implementing some of the ideas, you are able to pick and choose the ones you want to concentrate on and build from there.

"I would highly recommend this ebook because it is so practical. It is written in such a manner as to make you feel you are already using many of the tips and ideas.

"Personally, that makes me feel confident that I am on the right track with my relationship. I do realize that there are areas which need to be developed and I can easily see what needs improvement and how to do it. I appreciate that the ideas are written without a lot of unnecessary description and in everyday language. The book is well worth the read.




"Thank you for such a valuable resource"

"I found Susie and Otto Collins' Communication Tips and Secrets really useful, I've already recommended it to a few friends! I love the fact that it makes you reflect on how you talk to yourself, and how that impacts on your communication with others. Easy to read, understand and looks at both sides of communicating. Thanks you for such a valuable resource”

Susie Carlisle


"Helpful tips and they even work..."

"Lots of helpful tips [in 500 Communication Tips & Secrets] and they even Work. The secrets they give you explain it all out for you step by step. Well worth reading.”

Steve Bolter



"Useful not only in personal or romantic relationship but in all of our every day relationships.."

"Wow! I didn't realize just how many 500 really is! This is an incredibly thorough collection of ideas and communication techniques that are useful not only in personal or romantic relationships, but in all of our every day relationships.

"While some sections are not relevant to me currently, others really hit home for me and made me step back and think about some of my habits and current approach.

"This will be a useful reference guide that I plan to use regularly when I'm stuck with a situation or just need some reminders on how to be more a more effective communicator in any circumstance."



"Thank you for sharing your wonderful insight..."

"I have used Susie and Otto's communication tips in several different circumstances. I think they are very helpful tips when I remember to use them. I feel the number one problem in society today is the lack of communication between everyone.

"For some reason I have noticed that people just don't know how to communicate properly. I believe if we all were taught how to communicate properly this world would be a better place and I see that Susie and Otto are trying to make that happen.

"Thank you for sharing your wonderful insight. I will do my best to pass on your information. Thank you for all you do."



"All the tips are of great help indeed..."

"I've yet to read the entire book [500 Communication Tips & Secrets], but I've scrolled thru a bit. I must say there are really things I'd never thought of doing....like the agreements part.

"I imagine that would help create more understanding between two people when things are clear on both sides.

"it's even more important for me to make myself as clear as possible to another person, as most of the time I'm communicating through text chat / email and God knows how many times there were misunderstandings!

"All the tips are of great help indeed...as I'd qualify myself as...communication challenged! I've always enjoyed your newsletters and the tips you keep on giving. They have helped me a lot."




A Review of "500 Communication Tips & Secrets"

"Pros: the conscious agreements are an effective trust-building (or -rebuilding) exercise - I found that when the partner's intention is stated explicitly, and clearly, it is much easier to move on from the issue with confidence.

"It also helps each partner see where they may have contributed to the breakdown of communication and also to take responsibility for their part in the issue(s).

"The talking stick concept is a great device for making sure everyone is heard in full. This aids understanding, effective listening, and respect for each other's right to a point of view.

"The idea presented that we must talk positively and honestly to ourselves first is something we should all be reminded of - due to the prevalence of partners' feeling that they must shoulder all the responsibility, or none of it.

"This advice provoked quite a bit of inner searching in both my partner and I, and we discovered our respective roles in responsibility and they're connection to our communication issues.

"Cons: only one con presented itself to us - that of length and presentation of the program. While, I was not intimidated by the length of the program, my partner, who does not read nearly as much as me generally, felt overwhelmed initially by being confronted with 500 points of information.

"I understand that this may only be an issue for people who do not spend much of their time reading, and that it would be time-consuming to implement, but I thought I should mention it, as it could have prevented us from getting started with the tips, due to my partner's initial reluctance.

"We were able to get around it by cherry-picking, to an extent (after I explained to him that not all will apply to us, and we could section it up ourselves).

Thank you again for this program. We have definitely moved into a more open and trusting place with each other, since applying some of the tips and examining what they mean to us as individuals, as well as as a couple.

"We feel we have re-bonded, and with a greater understanding of what we want out of relationships, what we are able to give, and what we need to work on."


"I highly recommend this [Magic Words]..."

"I downloaded it In the morning and by lunch I was using it on a call with a very dear friend. I highly recommend this."

Rudy M.


"They Helped Me Attract My Perfect Partner..."

"I have finally attracted a partner who is really aligned with what I want in my life.  Through their coaching and books, Susie and Otto Collins have been my guides.  They've helped me identify blocks I've had in the past and helped me learn to do relationships in a different way.

This time I was really clear in my intentions about what I wanted in attracting a mate.  I've been able to visualize my perfect perfect partner, feel that I already have him in my life and let go of the outcome. I can tell you that their process really works!

Thank you for your wonderful coaching and wisdom, Susie and Otto!

Nancy, Cincinnati, Ohio


"This material is terrific..."

"I downloaded your 'Magic Words' ebook and got two audios a couple days ago.  Honestly, this material is terrific. I'm 60 yrs old and have been single for 27 years. I've worked on myself a lot but now that I finally have a really good man, I've noticed my inner thinking and some outer reactions that really have nothing to do with him. Your material is really helping me clarify and take responsibility for my own 'stuff' so I won't destroy what we are building. Thank you so much for what you do! You do it very well, too.





"This should be required reading before marriage."

"Your tips and suggestions were really helpful to me. This should be required reading before marriage. Thank you.

Nina, Port Macquarie, Australia



"Helped me to improve my relationships..."

"I purchased both 'Stop Talking on Eggshells' and 'Light Her Up.'  I found both to be enjoyable to read while providing me usable understanding that helped me to improve my relationships. I am looking forward to 'Irresistible Invitation to Love.'"

Colm, Portland, Oregon



He's noticed a huge difference in the response he gets out of the people he's talking to...

"Just writing to give some feed back about your books and the information and advice I've taken out of them so far from what I've read.

"I'm nearly 21 yrs of age and at different stages of my life have struggled to communicate with people and I've always wondered why even when I've had the best intentions when talking to people, I've upset them or made things worse.

"After reading the books what not to say it came clear that I use a lot of the language that you recommend not to use and since I've started to make a real effort to how I talk to people and how I express myself, I've noticed a huge difference in the response I get out of the people I'm talking to.

"I haven't read everything but I'm slowly getting through a lot of it and I personally feel it's great stuff. I truly think if I make a real effort in the future with putting what I learn into action, I believe it will help me with my relationships between the every day people I mix with.

"Thanks guys. It's great to learn new things and I'm a great believer of having an open mind and trying new things to always be a better person.

"You guys have helped me a great deal so far and I have enjoyed what I have read so far."

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"Your articles helped save my friends' marriage..."

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Cathi, Vancouver, WA



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"There's no way to express how grateful I am that I found your assistance in my recently discovered need to become reconnected with my wife, Mary. Things have a way of happening to us that we cannot believe would ever be happening.

"My discovery came as a result of a medical situation for Mary that caused a momentary thought that I might not have her in my life tomorrow. That thought triggered a change in my entire outlook on our relationship.

"Until that moment, the word relationship had very little import to me. Then with the new outlook in my heart, valuable resources like your book and news letters began to come into my view and I have been digesting and studying more than I have since my school years.

"I worried for a bit that Mary might think I had gone off the deep end since my attention to her and our "relationship" had made such an abrupt change
( Reverse ! ). Having read about the mistakes we men make, ( I responded "oh no" to all ten ), I had to wonder how it is that Mary still loves me.

"The "Magic Relationship Words" are a totally awesome collection of thoughtful and logical words to wrap a thought into that conveys the feeling that
the message is coming from a loving place.

"I can't report ( yet ) that I've spoken more than the one that has had the most profound effect on my thinking and in reducing Mary's apprehension about my change in attitude. ( "This relationship is so important to me _______ ")

Just to be certain that my new focus on our relationship wasn't causing Mary any worries about my mental health, I asked her best friend if Mary had mentioned anything about my recent relationship actions with her. The friend responded, "Yes !", with a smile. Then I asked her if Mary was pleased.... and got another "Yes !".

"I told Mary about the two question conversation an hour later after we we alone again and expressed to her how very happy and grateful that it had made me to know that she was accepting that my "change" is a genuine love based intention.

"Thank you both for the gifts you have shared to help our relationship. Mary and I have had a "good" 41 year marriage, and now I know we will have a GREAT marriage everyday from here on."




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"After my divorce, I wasn't completely sure about entering another relationship again. With your articles, tips and books, I was able to see what changes I needed to make and learn to appreciate men in a whole different light. Truly are great men out there. My life is full of excitement and it's because I took time to read and make my own changes ... it's very rewarding."

Pam - Ft Worth, TX



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"I have really enjoyed not only the Magic Relationship Words book, but also the mini course. The series and book helped me think about how my words and attitudes could be perceived or misconstrued by my partner, and how to more effectively communicate how I'm feeling or what I'm thinking without making the situation worse.

"I'm generally considered to be a kind, considerate person but this is a new relationship and I'm still learning his triggers and communication style.

"Your products really helped me put myself in his shoes in a more productive way. Thanks a lot for the help! 



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"No More Jealousy saved my relationship."

“No More Jealousy saved my relationship. With your help, my husband was able to let go of his unwarranted fear that I would abandon him and we began to have a healthy relationship . . . without jealousy . . . thanks”





"Should be required reading before marriage, just like a blood test!"

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"If I had had Magic Words, we would not have separated..."

"I first came across your "stuff" so to speak from a link by Bob Grant. My long distance boyfriend just broke up with me and I had ordered his ebook on getting a man back into your life and the one on long distance relationships. I also had read the book on the 5 Languages of Love referenced in Bob's ebook.

"I went over and over working on waiting. I was doing some spiritual cleaning and listening to Caroline Myss which some people find her rude, but she went over very well with me.

"I also studied your book on relationshipwords. Let me tell, if I had had all of this, we would not have separated.

"In preparation, I looked over all of the material and actually devised a plan of conversation. You see Bob says to keep the conversation short, but I also know with my particular the conversation would have to have some substance and that I would have only 1 chance to get this guy to keep talking to me.

"Even in the middle of the conversation, he made a reference
that the breakup was permanent.

"I went over your relationship words, and basically with all of the above knowledge, I typed out a conversation, even going over 1 very bad incident and told him what I should have said and how we could have devised a plan to synergistically work out a solution.

"It really hit him like a ton of bricks! (but in the right way). The phrase I used was the "I noticed that XXX seems to still be bothering you. How can I help you with that?"

"I ended with telling him that when he was having trouble with a certain situation, in fact, I realized that we were actually evolving and going forward as a couple, and not becoming just friends.

"I told him I needed to give him encouraging words, part of his love language. So I pulled out your most perfect sentence and said to him, this is what I should have said and I will say it now:

"I am going to love you anyway.

"Then I paused and just waited. After a bit he told me I had given him much to think about. My own intuition told me to end with this, because his heart would be doing a 180. He said he had to end off, probably since it was quite a lot of emotion, positive though.

"He also said he would call me again. I think he is mulling things over.

"It was a combination of everything I mentioned above, and still deviating from Bob's advice and having the guts to do it.

"I'll keep studying those words so I will be ready when he calls back and for use in regular relationships too.

Name Withheld by Request



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